Your erotic energy is the rocket fuel of life
Let it transform your world
As well as your bedroom

Hello Fellow Traveller,
I’m so happy that you’ve found your way here. It takes courage to embark on a journey of self-discovery. Especially when the next frontier is your sexuality.
Having dedicated my life to the practice of awakening, I know that the most potent place this happens is in the body.
Let me be your guide.
Big love,
Gayatri x
Awaken to the aliveness of your being
Since 2012 I have been offering sacred spaces for men – and those who love them – to discover the aliveness of their being through conscious touch, sensual initiation, and erotic awakening.
As an Erotic Mystic (yup that’s what I call myself) I work with the energetics of the body rather than the “nuts and bolts”. If you are feeling called to step into the unknown and be taken beyond what you think is possible, then let’s explore together.
Looking for offerings for women, including practitioner training and mentoring?
Check out my Tantra Massage Training website.


A matter of planetary importance




We are at a critical point in the evolution of humanity.
For many it seems like the time of women has come and the Feminine is on the rise. Yet if this means that men are being left behind and the qualities of the mature Masculine are left out, then it is no evolution at all. We need dynamic and fluid relations between men and women. We need healthy models of Masculine and Feminine expression. We are longing to meet and be met. Together we rise.
Your sexual potency is a gift to women and the world
How do you show up as a man in this day and age?
It’s a challenging and confusing time… traditional Masculine mores have fallen away, or even fallen into disrepute. What has come to take their place?
Many men struggle with the confusing and contradictory messages about how to be a man – especially in the erotic arena…
- The standard story of sex puts all the pressure on you as a man... Not too quick, not too slow, not too hard, and definitely not too soft
- You are expected to initiate yet not be pushy or a “predator”
- You are expected to know how a woman’s body works without ever having been taught, and without her being about to guide you towards female pleasure
- You are expected to be strong and manly yet also sensitive and attuned
- Boundaries and consent seem to be a hot topic but you don’t know what they mean for you or how to navigate that territory
With the tension between all these things, it’s little wonder that many men feel paralyzed and uncertain how to move forward.
It’s time to claim your potency back.
Or perhaps truly discover it for the very first time.






Does this sound like you?




- You just know that there is so much more to sex than you have previously experienced
- You sense that there’s a connection between the sexual and the spiritual
- You need a safe space to find out what pleasure and intimacy really mean for you – just you
- You’re wondering who you are as a sexual being
- You want to discover your authentic erotic expression - free from pressure of performance and full of pleasure potential
- You want to re-ignite your mojo – for sex and life
- You sense that there’s a sexual man – perhaps even a sexy beast - in there but don’t know how to let him out
- You are uncertain about how to show up as a man in a post #metoo world? You feel like landscape of intimacy and relating has changed and you are navigating without a map
- You’re longing for depth of knowledge and wisdom AND you want to feel at ease and welcome
And perhaps this is you too...
- You’re curious about Tantra yet it seems to be a minefield to find the right guide
- You have already invested in your personal development and intuitively know that sexuality is the next horizon for you
- You’ve read the books on sexual mastery yet without an embodied experience you remain in the dark
- You care about consent and want to know how to relate to women in attuned ways (and not mess up)
- Ethics and integrity matter to you in work, play and life
- You want to be a better human being as well as a better lover
- You are - or want to become - an evolutionary force in the world








Working with me is NOT for you if...
- You have a fixed idea about what sex is or how sex should be
- You want to pursue your own agenda (this could look like wanting specific acts to occur or having a fantasy play out)
- You are fixed on your idea of what a man is and how a man should sex
- You have no interest in embodied practice or inner work.