About Me
As long as I can remember, I’ve been a seeker.
Driven by a desire to know myself.
To meet the Mystery.
To be in intimate relationship with All That Is.
All my life I felt at home in my body.
I realise how rare that is.
Sensuality comes naturally to me.
Eros fascinates me.
Not just sex - but the deeper pulse of aliveness that runs beneath it.
And yet… it took time to find the courage to turn toward this work fully.
To claim it as sacred.
To let it become my vocation.
My path included a long detour.
I spent more than a decade in London, immersed in the corporate world.
Managing high-end business developments, navigating teams, timelines and pressure.
Those years gave me an understanding of the demands of success: the responsibility, the expectations, the pressure to keep delivering. I know how much energy it takes to sustain that life, and how easily deeper desires can be put aside.
But I was building a career in a world that never quite felt like my own.
Eventually, I chose to leave and devoted myself completely to the sacred path that had always called me.
I’ve danced with the light and the dark.
I’ve met grief, rage, innocence and ecstasy.
What I’ve come to know is this: when we meet the body with reverence, the soul awakens.
This work is love in action. And it changes lives.
Since 2012, I’ve guided hundreds of people through the portals of pleasure, presence, and profound self-remembrance.
For seven years, I led Tantra Massage Training - a modern-day mystery school blending heart-centred touch with sacred sexuality. A space where body, spirit, and eros could finally meet without shame.
Currently my offerings orient around:
- INITIATION – my signature online programme for men ready to claim their sexual potency with confidence, presence and integrity.
- 1:1 immersions for men seeking erotic empowerment, deeper embodiment and relational awareness.
- Mentorship for Facilitators & Practitioners of Love & Eros
- Curation and hosting of Emergent Eros an annual gathering devoted to intimacy and community.
More than a decade of working in Sacred Sexuality has taught me how much courage it can take to share what feels most private. I bring openness, care and respect for each person’s experience.
My approach brings together spiritual depth, practical understanding and a good sense of humour. There is room for the tenderness, the awkwardness, the laughter - all of what makes us human.
At the heart of my work is a single intention - to guide people back to their essence so they can stand in their power, live from the heart and move through life awake, aligned and free.
If you met me, you would know that...
* I'm Scottish. People love my soft accent and great big laugh.
*Â If I lived my life over again, I would be a dancer. In movement I express myself with the sweetest articulacy.
*Â Music is my medicine. You can find me DJing at parties and on ecstatic dancefloors. Check out my DJ sets on Mixcloud.
* Playing the ukulele and singing is my favourite way to unwind. (Marilyn Monroe in “Some Like It Hot” was the inspiration!)
* Wild swimming is my number one self-care activity. Though don’t ask about the WimHof method. I just get in the water.
*Â I fancy myself as a bit of a word-wrangler. I have a collection of poems entitled Poetry from the Portal and you can hear me read some of them here.
* I’m a Gene Keys freak. I have the key of “Awakening” three times in my profile, which means it’s a very very very significant theme in my life.
Professional Trainings & Qualifications
Wondering how I got to be doing what I do? Here's the lowdown of the trainings I have undertaken in order to offer this work with depth and integrity.
I love learning and have a BA (Hons) degree in English Literature & Philosophy and a Masters degree in Linguistics.
Plus pretty much a lifetime of questioning the standard narrative and questing for the Sacred.Â
Neo-Tantra & Sacred Sexuality Trainings
Other Professional Trainings
Trauma-Informed Trainings
Diversity & Inclusivity Trainings
Inspired and influenced by...
Alan Lowen and the Art of Being
Barbara Carrellas
John Hawken
The community of The Leela Centre
Brig Feltus and the Remember Institute
Daniel Pinchbeck
Jamie Wheal
David Deida
John Crow and the CrossBones Graveyard
Arian Bloodwood
Right Use of Power Institute
Our sacred Earth and beyond-human Nature
My family - of blood and soul
The circle of sisters I sit in each month
All the men I have ever loved and been loved by.