About Me
I’ve always felt at home in my body.
Sensuality comes naturally to me.
Eros has fascinated me for as long as I can remember.
Not just sex - but the deeper pulse of aliveness that runs beneath it.
And yet… it took time to find the courage to turn toward this work fully.
To claim it as sacred.
To let it become my vocation.
Before this life, there were others.
I spent more than a decade living in London, immersed in the corporate world -
managing high-end business developments, navigating teams, timelines, pressure.
I know what it means to perform, to polish, to produce.
Understand the weight of success and the cost of disconnection.
Lived that life. Speak that language.
And I’ve walked the path back to the body — where truth, freedom, and feeling live.
I’ve danced with the light and the shadow.
I’ve held grief, rage, innocence, and ecstasy.
What I’ve come to know is this: when we meet the body with reverence, the soul responds.
This work is love in action. And it changes lives.
Since 2012, I’ve guided hundreds of people through the portals of pleasure, presence, and profound self-remembrance.
For seven years, I led Tantra Massage Training — a modern-day mystery school blending heart-centered touch with sacred sexuality. A space where body, spirit, and eros could finally meet without shame.
Today, I pour my energy into:
- Private work with men and couples, where I guide deeper embodiment, erotic reclamation, and relational truth.
- Mentorship for women, training practitioners of excellence in sacred sexuality — women who want to serve from soul.
- Curation and hosting of Emergent Eros — an annual gathering devoted to intimacy through community. It’s a living field where eros, expression, and connection converge — tender, wild, and beautifully real.
There is very little I haven’t seen, heard, or held.
What I bring is a rare balance —
Mystical depth, grounded clarity, joyful laughter, and fierce wisdom.
This isn’t about performance.
It’s about coming home — to your pleasure, your truth, and your power.
If you met me, you would know that...
* People love my soft Scottish accent and great big laugh.
*Â If I lived my life over again, I would be a dancer. In movement I express myself with the sweetest articulacy.
*Â Music is my passion. You can find me DJing at parties and on ecstatic dancefloors. Check out my DJ sets on Mixcloud.
* Playing the ukulele and singing is my favourite way to unwind. (Marilyn Monroe in “Some Like It Hot” was the inspiration!)
* Wild swimming is my number one self-care activity. Though don’t ask about the WimHof method. I’m Scottish. I just get in the water.
*Â I fancy myself as a bit of a word-wrangler. I have a collection of poems entitled Poetry from the Portal and you can hear me read some of them here.
* I’m a Gene Keys freak. I have the key of “Awakening” three times in my profile, which means it’s a very very very significant theme in my life.
Professional Trainings & Qualifications
Wondering how I got to be doing what I do? Here's the lowdown of the trainings I have undertaken in order to offer this work with depth and integrity.
I love learning and have a BA (Hons) degree in English Literature & Philosophy and a Masters degree in Linguistics.
Plus pretty much a lifetime of questioning the standard narrative and questing for the Sacred.Â
Neo-Tantra & Sacred Sexuality Trainings
Other Professional Trainings
Trauma-Informed Trainings
Diversity & Inclusivity Trainings
Inspired and influenced by...
Alan Lowen and the Art of Being
Barbara Carrellas
John Hawken
Osho and the community of Osho Leela
Brig Feltus and the Remember Institute
Charles Eisenstein
Daniel Pinchbeck
Jamie Wheal
David Deida
John Crow and the CrossBones Graveyard
Arian Bloodwood (my accountancy advisor)
Our sacred Earth and beyond-human Nature
My family - of blood and soul
All the men I have ever loved and been loved by.
