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What is a Tantric massage? Sep 18, 2024

Many folks are muddled about what is a Tantric massage.

Mistaking it for simply a sexual or sensual experience. Or the notorious "happy ending".

Tragically this misses the depth and potential for transformation that comes through honouring presence and devotional touch.

"What a life-changing...

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End of an Era Aug 08, 2024

As of today 8th August 204, I am bringing all offerings under the banner of my name - Gayatri Beegan - and no longer using the name "Tantra Massage Training".

In an ideal world I would have given a bit more notice of this change.

However, I'm an Aries and I tend to take action when...

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The Most Erotic Experience of His Life Jun 22, 2024

He looked at me with wonder in his eyes and said, “That was the most erotic experience of my life”.

Many men say these words after receiving Tantric bodywork from me. The exact same words each time.

What’s interesting is that I am not doing anything sexy in an obvious way. The...

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So, you think you are a Giver? Jun 19, 2024

Time and time again I hear from men that they are a “giver”. It gives him pleasure to give pleasure to a woman during intimate and erotic encounters.

Our culture rewards the concept of giving. How generous. How considerate. What a good person you must be when you give.

And yet…...

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Temples Jun 18, 2024

I dream of a world with temples. Not the "Waft a bit of incense around at a s*x party" kind of temple. But places of reverence and devotion to the Sacred.

I dream of a world where men are initiated into the Mysteries of existence through the portal of the body.

I dream of a world where this...

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How slow can you go? May 30, 2024

When the standard portrayal of sex is hot, horny and fast, why would you want to cultivate erotic experience that is warm, tender and slow?

Rushing into intensity can be a way of avoiding all the niggles, fears and uncertainties going on underneath the surface of experience. Making a lot of...

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What is Eros? Apr 18, 2024

Eros is the energy of existence. Expressing itself as aliveness.

Ero emerges through every aspect of life. Whether we are consciously aware of it or not.

It is the fire of desire.
It is the current flowing.
It is the ground that roots.
It is the inspiration that gives you wings.

Yet how do we...

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Emergent Eros: Authentic Aliveness through Intimacy & Embodiment Apr 09, 2024

You are invited to an innovative new paradigm-shifting retreat this Summer - Emergent Eros (14th to 18th August @ Osho Leela).

A rare in-person group event with me! Visioned and curated in collaboration with my beloved friend and colleague Catherine Hale.

We are taking what is best in a festival...

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What I learned about Eros through creativity (and how stress blocks both) Mar 21, 2024

If you’ve been following my work for a while, you will know that I’ve been cultivating the practice of writing.

Last year – when I moved home and became a solo householder again – writing output withered and waned. Faced with the newness of space and place and busyness of...

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What is here now? Feb 29, 2024

The ability to truly hear another - with curiosity about their experience and without taking it personally - is a wonderful capacity to cultivate.

Do you provide a safe harbour for them to gently dock the boats of emotion? Or do you cast them into raging seas of reactivity?

All too often when we...

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Why wait till it goes "wrong" to find out what feels right for you? Feb 01, 2024

It’s kind of curious that we humans are often more motivated by pain than pleasure.

I’m not talking about the kinky and consensual kind of pain. I simply mean that we seemed to be spurred to move away from what we don’t want rather than move towards what we do want. The stick of...

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What is the place of pleasure in the world? Jan 11, 2024

As you look out into the world right now, you may be wondering where humanity is heading.

Complex emotions may be arising – grief, despair, rage and bewilderment. Or perhaps it all feels just too much, and numbness blankets the overwhelm.

When so many are suffering, is it okay to feel joy?
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