Tantra Massage for Lovers
Your love is not a fixed thing.
It’s alive. Evolving.
And when given the right conditions, it can elevate, expand, and deepen in ways you never imagined.
Whether you’ve been together for decades or are just beginning this journey, there’s a world waiting beneath the surface - of touch, of presence, of sensual communion.
Tantra Massage for Lovers is more than a retreat.
It’s an invitation to step out of the habitual and into the sacred.
To slow down, listen deeply, and meet one another again as if for the very first time.
Expertly guided and lovingly held by Gayatri, this five-day immersion offers a rare opportunity to explore the art of sacred, sensual touch.
Not just as technique, but as practice.
As devotion.
As a portal to connection that is erotic, emotional, and exquisitely human.
Held in beautiful nature, far from the noise and demands of daily life, you’ll have space to truly be -
in your partnership, in your pleasure, in presence.
What can this retreat awaken in you?
- A renewed sense of closeness and intimacy
- Confidence in giving and receiving sacred touch
- A deeper understanding of your partner’s arousal and emotional landscape
- Greater ease, clarity, and playfulness in your communication
- A shift from performative sex to nourishing, connected lovemaking
- The healing of old patterns that no longer serve your relationship
- A shared language of presence, consent, and devotion
- Erotic inspiration that continues long after you return home
Whether you're longing to reignite the spark, explore new territory together, or simply spend uninterrupted time in connection, this retreat offers a unique and powerful environment to meet each other in a new way.
The Journey
Over the retreat, we’ll explore four foundational gateways to deeper intimacy and sacred connection. Each is rooted in embodiment and real-life practice. You’ll not only learn about these themes, you will also experience them directly, with your beloved by your side.
Conscious Communication
The way we speak - and listen - can either open the heart or close it. In this space, you’ll learn how to express your truth and meet each other with clarity, compassion, and presence.
You’ll explore how to:
- Express your needs, desires, and boundaries in loving, clear ways
- Give and receive feedback that deepens connection rather than creating distance
- Understand the difference between giving and taking
- Explore receiving and allowing in ways that honour sovereignty
- Tune into your partner beyond words—for deeper, more intuitive intimacy
Bonding Behaviours
True intimacy is built on micro-moments—touch, gaze, gestures, rituals. Here, we’ll slow everything down to rediscover each other with fresh eyes and rekindle the warmth between you.
You’ll be guided to:
- Reignite the spark by seeing each other anew
- Reconnect with the core attitudes that enliven connection—curiosity, innocence, and playfulness.
- Cultivate warm lovemaking that nourishes connection
- Discover the power of sensuality beyond friction-based sex
- Explore new ways of relating - inside and outside the bedroom
Anatomy & Energetics of Arousal
Understanding the pathways of pleasure frees us from performance and pressure. This is the sex education you never had -based on truth, reverence, and deep embodiment.
You’ll be invited to:
- Receive clear, accurate knowledge about arousal, anatomy, and pleasure
- Learn the different arousal pathways in different bodies
- Unlearn cultural conditioning that distorts sex and limits freedom
Ecstatic Awakening Massage
This is the heart of the retreat: a sacred, full-body experience of erotic energy as life force. Through breath, presence, and honouring touch, you’ll awaken each other in ways that are tender, powerful, and deeply connecting.
You’ll learn to:
- Experience the essence of Tantric touch
- Awaken erotic energy through breath, sound, and movement
- Awaken kundalini energy with enlivening massage
- Expand erotic energy through the chakras
- Offer and receive sacred techniques for Lingam (penis), Yoni (vulva) and Breast Massage
- Discover how intentional touch can become a portal into healing, devotion, and ecstasy
- Delight in Tantric rituals of love, honouring and devotion
Who is this for?
This retreat is for couples who already share a solid, loving connection and are seeking to elevate their relationship.
You may be:
- Curious to deepen your sexual connection
- Wanting to learn new ways of giving and receiving touch
- Longing to bring more presence, playfulness, and reverence into your intimacy
Who is this NOTÂ for?
This retreat is not suitable for couples currently experiencing significant relationship conflict or hoping this experience will “fix” something.
Sexual energy is an amplifier - it brings everything to the surface. If you're navigating tension, distrust, or disconnection - especially around sex - you need a different kind of support.
The retreat is for a small and intimate group. With only seven couples, it offers rare personalised attention and depth that’s not possible in larger groups.
Couples engage only with each other throughout the retreat. You are always in choice about the level of participation. Whether you simply observe a demonstration and retreat into your private space to explore in your own timing, or practice within the group setting under Gayatri’s guidance.
"Gayatri holds the most beautiful, safe and sacred space to explore and integrate our sensuality and sexuality with our love and spirituality. It’s the perfect antidote to the dysfunction so many of us have experienced in 'normal' society."
"Gayatri's work is life-changing. She speaks gentle wisdom, asks deep questions, demonstrates with skill and fun, and creates a space that is both supportive and transformative."
"This retreat changed my life. I expected depth—but not the level of profound shift I experienced. I felt held, stretched, supported, and guided with care. The team were incredible. The food, the venue, the energy -unforgettable."
Practicalities
Location
The retreat takes place at Earth Spirit in Somerset, just five miles from mystical Glastonbury. Nestled within the sacred lands of Avalon, the centre is surrounded by nature reserves and holds an atmosphere of seclusion, magic, and timelessness.
Venue
We’ll be based in Little Earth - a purpose-built retreat space for small groups. It features a light-filled workshop room with underfloor heating, a cosy dining area, and private accommodation. The space is welcoming, intimate, and perfectly suited to deep, sacred work.
More info and travel directions: www.earthspirit-centre.co.uk
Food & Drink
Earth Spirit’s in-house chefs will prepare vibrant, nourishing vegetarian meals for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Hot drinks and snacks are available throughout the day.
Special diets can be accommodated with prior notice (additional charges may apply).
Arrival & Departure
- Arrival: From 6pm on Day 1, Friday 21st November
- Departure: By 3pm on Day 5, Tuesday 25th November
The retreat begins after dinner on the first evening with an Opening Circle to arrive as a group.
We recommend arriving in good time to settle into your space and enjoy a meal all together before the opening session.
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Investment
Early Bird Rate - ÂŁ2,200 per couple (till 31st August)
Standard Rate - ÂŁ2,500 per couple
Reserve your place now with a deposit of ÂŁ500.
What's included
The rate is inclusive of all retreat expenses with no hidden costs.
- Training and guidance by Gayatri, supported by her team
- Accommodation from Friday 21st to Tuesday 25th November
- All meals starting with dinner on the first evening and finishing with lunch on the final day
- Downloadable guide of massage sequences for home practice
- Guided meditations and practices for home exploration
