Erotic Mastery for Evolutionary Men
Many of my clients are entrepreneurs, visionaries, change makers, and leaders. They have cultivated the skills of worldly success and achievement, yet they know that there’s more they can gift to life.
Sex isn’t just what happens in the bedroom, it’s the life force behind your purpose.
Our Western culture is addicted to stimulation, high acceleration and instant results. But guess what… that doesn’t work when it comes to cultivating a new awareness of your sexuality and the evolution of your erotic expression.
The Erotic Mastery programme follows four key stages: Activate, Attune, Arouse and Amplify.
Activate is the foundation before going onto the other levels. You can also do this level as a standalone experience.
Like any endeavour, it’s very tempting to want to rush to the peak. However, it’s essential to build base camp. If you haven’t activated and attuned your sexual energy first, then it’s all too easy to fall into the default ways of doing things.
If you keep doing the same old thing, you’ll keep getting the same old outcomes. Re-wiring the circuitry of your body and brain takes time and discipline. You’re worth t. So is She.
Level One: Activate
This is where the journey starts – with you. Owning your sexual energy and discovering how to build your capacity for pleasure. The work of becoming a self-actualised man and a better lover starts with your body and your potency. If you cannot come to know and love yourself as a man, what are offering to Her?
- Ignite your sexual energy from the inside out
- Create a strong container for your sexual energy so that you can “hold the charge”
- Expand your capacity for pleasure and move towards full body orgasm
- Discover the difference between climax and orgasm so that you can move beyond the biological drive and align with the evolutionary impulse
- Connect with breath, sound and movement – the keys to energy awakening
- Release the barriers to authentic erotic expression; such as sexual shame and stigma
- Cultivate your sexual energy through self-pleasure
- Transmute sexual energy for new states of consciousness




Level Two: Attune
Our culture tends to over-emphasise the “yang” doing aspects of sexuality – and life in general – at the expense of the “yin” being aspects. This inhibits your capacity to tune into and flow with the pleasure of the moment. Cultivating a relationship with “yin” through energetic attunement supports you in coming more fully into your erotic expression with Her.
- Cultivate erotic intelligence and why it matters
- Deepen in presence and expand in energetic sensitivity
- Appreciate beauty and the female form in healthy and holistic ways
- Explore the art of giving and receiving
- Discover the principles of generous erotic touch
- (Re) discovering intimacy and why it’s so much more than the physical
- Exploring boundaries through the verbal (consent conversation) and non-verbal (reading the signs)
- The relationship between sex, heart and soul
Level Three: Arouse
From the solid foundations and sexual awareness of Activate and Attune, you are now ready to take wings and rise. Discover the anatomy and energetics of arousal. The different yet complementary paths of awakening through the body in order to open to ecstatic states of consciousness and erotic bliss.
- Explore your authentic erotic expression; free from pressure of performance and full of pleasure potential
- Take a tour of the female body and receive the sex education you never had
- Discover the mysteries of female arousal, and why it’s not so mysterious after all
- Learn about what gets in the way of female pleasure and why it matters
- Expand your erotic repertoire through the erogenous zones all over the body




Level Four: Amplify
Where you go from here? How do you tune into Her moment to moment and amplify arousal? Many men long to taste more flavours on the erotic spectrum yet don’t know where to start. Discovering your unique erotic makeup is one part; learning how to share this with Her is the other.
- Explore your erotic wiring – including desires and fantasies - in a welcoming and non-judgemental space
- Discover your “turn-ons”, what makes you tick and how to communicate this to Her
- Harness the power of erotic archetypes and dark Eros
- Play with the polarity of opposites – yin and yang
- Turn up the charge with power dynamics - in ethical and enlightening ways



Investment
Per Level – £2,550
All Four Levels – £9,500
Each level is offered as two full days of immersive experience spread over three days.
Arrival from 2pm on the first day, one full day in the middle, and departure from 2pm on the final day.
Includes:
- Six sessions of experiential learning and embodied practice
- Two overnight stays with accommodation provided
- Meals, snacks and refreshments from arrival to departure
- Embodied practices and handouts for home play
- Check-in call via Zoom within one month to answer any questions and support your integration
Sessions are recommended every 3-4 months with the series completed ideally within 18 months (maximum of 24 months) of booking.
Payment plans offered at no extra charge in order to spread out the instalments over 6 or 12 months.



